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53 Simple Laws of Body Language

53 Simple Laws of Body Language

Welcome to this blog “53 Simple Laws of Body Language” which will help you master the science of body language to a large extent. In this blog, you will find a list of 53 simple body language signs that are meaningful and useable to make your communication more effective. Let’s Get Started.

1:It’s how you looked when you said, its not what you actually said.

2:Humans have 2,50,000 facial expressions.

3:Verbal Contribution in Communication is just 35%, and 65% is Body Language.

4:A fearful person will fold his arm, legs or both to make himself Comfortable.

5:How much we widen our hands = How much more significant the issue we consider.

6:Women’s body language reading accuracy is 87%, and male is just 42%.

7:Fortune Tellers read your body language to talk about your personality.

8:Most men use their left brain more however women use their right hemisphere of the brain.

9:Our Shoulder shrug means submission.

10:Body language is not about reading one thing; it is about reading multiple things at once and then making an accurate decision.

11: People try to hide their faces when they lie.

12:Body language is easier to fake with men.

13:In Ancient times, open palms meant no weapons.

14:If someone is honest with you, he will speak with palms open with you.

15:Women try to look busy when they lie.

16:If you meet with palm facing upside, it means you are submissive.

17:If you meet with palm facing downward, it means you tend to be authoritative.

18:Pointing figure to someone is the non-verbal way of saying “do it, or I will screw you”.

19:Speakers who point fingers while speaking are considered aggressive.

20:Handshake with double hands show affection and close relation.

21:One who stands on the picture’s left side is considered dominant.

22:The More you will smile, the more others will love you.

23:When Liars smile, the left side of their face is more prominent.

24:Study shows that women laugh at men they are attracted to.

25:Men are attracted to women who laugh at them.

26:In Interviews, crossed arms are considered less credible.

27:Women keep their arms open to men they are attracted to.

28:Women keep their arms crossed to men they feel threatened from.

29:If your listener is crossing their arms, give him something to hold.

30:Crossed arms and clenched fists mean an aggressive attitude.

31:Thumbs up, but crossed arms means being defensive yet thinking that the other person is cool.

32:Men place their hands in front of their private parts because they feel secure doing this.

33:Men adjusting their cuff-links are nervous and trying not to show it.

34:Grasping Flowers show Self Consciousness.

35:When someone is not willing to listen to you in a meeting, he will place his cup near the opposite arm with respect to the holding the arm to create a block.

36:Sitting with an elbow on the armrest of the chair means you are trying to be authoritative.

37:Women touch other women 4x more than men touch other men.

38:Hand clenched in raised position reveals frustration even when the person is smiling.

39:Steeple means confidence and knowing the answer.

40:Gripping your arm in the back means holding yourself from any aggressive action.

41:For women: holding your face with your hands means you are open to a man you admire.

42:Extended gazing can intimate feelings.

43:Right amount of gaze shows credibility.

44:Open legs show more confidence than a male.

45:Models keep their hands on hips to make clothes more appealing.

46:Mirroring the other person’s body language increase the acceptance.

47:Smoking blown up: superior, positive, confident.

48:Smoking blown down: Secretive, suspicious, negative.

49:Solid frame glasses make you look more sincere and intelligent.

50:Placing her handbag near a man means trust.

51:Women with child-like faces can release the hormones in men that will make them protect the females.

52:Instead of saying “I love you” say “you have lost some weight” to females. They will start liking you.

53:Men touching things consciously is about showing their ownership.

These were the Basic 53 Signs of Body Language that will help you better communicate your message to another person. Do you have any 54th body language signs? Let me know in the comment.

Content Courtesy: The Definite Book of Body Language

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